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| Mom and Dad at hospital |
I have come to the realization that I will be my parents full time caregiver. As an only child, this is something that I knew might happen. Did I think it would happen now? No, not at all. I was pretty content enjoying my new home out in the country as a empty nester. Things were going great, I had a new job, Ebay was doing well so I really had no complaints.
But we all know that life happens. So... here we are, at a new place in all our lives. There are pluses to this situation. My family is getting the opportunity to become closer during this event. And that goes for everyone.... I am getting the opportunity to reconnect with my dad. When I was working full time, I had little time to stop and see my dad. When I did, he was usually sleeping. But, now we are with each other 24/7. He is fiesty and still has an opinion about everything . He still likes everything just so. Some things never change.
Things will be different when my mom gets to come back home. We are hoping she will get stronger in Rehab, but we are realistic too. She will need total supervision too. (Yeah....that sounds weird to say).
But I will be here for both of them. I want them to have as much time together as possible. We talk to her radiation doctor on Tuesday, so then we should have a better idea of a prognosis for her.
We eventually want to move my parents out to our home in the country. Will this happen? Time will tell. It is still one day at a time here.
How will this affect my family financially? Our living expenses will be lower since we will be living at my parents house. Other expenses will be covered by my husband's pay. Will we be able to save money? I am sure we will. Can we pay off the credit card debt this year? That is our goal.
17 comments:
I've been reading and following along since your mom had to go into the hospital. I think it's wonderful that you can be there for your parents.
I think it will change your life drastically, but I do believe it's the right thing to do if you can... Your parents are lucky that you're stepping up to the plate.. You'll build some wonderful memories I'm sure! :)
Both of my parents lived with me and after my dad passed away my mom stayed. Its not going to be easy but I wouldnt give a minute of it back
Life will change, but you will get some great experiences from it, too. As for paying off your debt, you will just have to get extra creative and i can't wait to read about it!
Things will be different & maybe challenging at times. You can only do the best you can. I am sure youre mum & dad will love having you both there. Look after you as well. x x
Glad that your mum is a little better. Becoming a carer overnight has a lot of challenges, and a lot of blessings. take care of yourself xx
I envy you, I really do. Both of my parents had to remain in hospital over their last couple of years, and in different cities! It was really hard - my mom had Parkinson's and my dad suffered from depression, anxiety and OCD. I have 4 siblings and all of us were willing and prepared to have one or both of our parents live with us but it wasn't meant to be. Both died in hospital. I think you will find this a time you will always cherish. Bless you for being open to change and a new lifestyle!
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Your Family is in my thoughts.. Keep writing Lisa as many will benefit from reading about your struggle!
I think it is really something (good) that you're looking at this with such a positive outlook. I hope she is feeling better soon and that things ease out for all of you!
Perhaps this was one of those blessings in disguise. Several years down the line, I'm sure you'll look back and remember these years fondly.
Thanks for your support. :)
Becoming a caregiver is challenging, but I am up to it.
Thanks Denise! Life is certainly an adventure, that's for sure.
I am looking at this situation as a blessing in disguise.
Thanks for your support Little Lamb. I appreciate it greatly.
We are going to make the best of the time we have, that's for sure.
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